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Just your average Melbourne girl who couldn't get enough of scrolling through blogs and decided to start one of her own!
You are probably one of the strongest willed people I have ever met, you are incredible. The strength you have within you to be able to deal with what you are dealing with is just... amazing, I am speechless. Your absolute ability to handle and cope with things is just incredicle, something I do not know if I could ever do. The way you keep yourself so composed. I feel terrible for questioning my life, my happiness when other people it have it worse than I do.
I believe that you have made the right decision. You are not running away, you are doing what it best for you. You can't make a life here, not with her. You need to start putting yourself first, and I believe that you have done that when you thought this through. This is the best for you.
You are so strong.
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When is it ok to lie to someone? Not a massive life changing lie, but perhaps just a little white lie?
Is it ok if will spare someone's feelings? Save either you or them from embarrassment? Or keeps you out of trouble? I think, a little itty bity white lie couldn't hurt, or could it. If the lie is to spare either mine or a friend's feelings, that's ok, right?
What exactly is a lie? A lie is 'a false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive; an intentional untruth; a falsehood.' [www.dictionary.com] You see, the little white lie I told today was a false statement but I wouldn't consider it deliberately intend to deceive... It's more complicated than that.
As human beings our natural instinct is to save ourselves, first, is it not? If one was to be confronted with a question we do not want to hear, either for the reaction of the questioner or to save your own embarrassment, is it not just easier to tell a lie? It wouldn't even be considered a lie, more like... The twisted truth, diverting the answer or simply the alternative truth. At times the questioner is faced to decipher our answer. Are we telling the truth? Are we telling it in code? Are we simply saying no instead of yes?
That's left for you to decide.
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